Communication. I swear that humans beings, who are by default social animals can’t communicate effectively. Feelings, hurt and hidden cause all sorts of problems for us. Why can’t we just get along?
Today’s communication pattern is the concept of email cc’s. If you cc someone when you send an email then you are telling them one of two things. The first is that you don’t think they will respond correctly. The other reason you might cc someone is that you do not believe they are capabile and are letting their manager know that without actually saying it.
Which brings me to my 100th blog on the concept of communication.
I have found a flaw in my personal communication style. I am not always clear about what I can and cannot do. I like to please people (I don’t want them to dislike me). As such I am not always clear in what I can and cannot do. I am striving to be more clear as I go forward, but it is a long road from where I am to where I would like to be.
Clarity is a critical and it is my new personal goal.